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NBB question from Katie:
Hi, wondering if anyone has any advice for the following situation with my toddler demanding to be carried:
Often when in public - shopping or the park - my 2 yr 2 month year old will demand to be carried. Being 7 months pregnant this is really difficult. Its not that he is tired or scared, it just seems more a battle of wills/stubbornness thing. I try distraction, making walking fun, giving incentives, choices, extended stand offs but he will stand in the one spot or lay down forever, nothing is working! Help please! He also started doing this at home too so not just in public! Anyone experience this while expecting?
NBB Question from Brianna:
Hi all, I'm a 3rd time mum to a 2 week old and have my hands full with 3 boys. I used a manual breast pump for my first 2 and this time around, I don't have the time that I need to express that I did with my first 2. Would a double electric pump help speed up the process or is a single electric suffice?
I had to pump exclusively for a few weeks because bub is preemie and was using a tube, and I was using the Medela single electric swing. I just bought the Medela double electric swing flex after convincing myself ‘it’s just money it’ll be worth it to cut time in half’ and I wish I did it weeks ago! Soooooo worth it!23 hours ago
NBB question from Hannah:
My son will be 20months (weaned when he was 10 months) when we welcome our next bundle and I have learnt it’s good to have a ‘special’ toy for him for when I am breast feeding to avoid jealousy. He is incredibly busy and fickle with toys – he never has a favourite day in day out, so I’ve decided my best bet to keep him happy and to stay in the one spot with me is to give him my old iPad. I’m going to reset it so it won’t be used for anything but for him. Are there any recommendations for making an iPad as toddler-proof as possible, and any games that are engaging for that age?
My son was 18 months when our daughter was born, I bought him a couple new books and toys and prepared for the jealousy. He loved the books but honestly he is just absolutely smitten with her, we encourage him to kiss, touch and cuddle her and be apart of it all. Showing him how to be gentle and kind. When feeding her i try read to him or ask him to find things in the book. When she is asleep I spend time with him. Hope this helps. Good luck! :D Such a special time1 day ago · 7
We gave our 2 daughters our old iPad when our youngest was born, but it was broken (glass) in no time. Even with a case. They were given another when we had to home school last year, same story 🙄. ABC kids was the only thing that kept them occupied during feeding. Thankfully he was an efficient feeder and done in 10 mins most times.1 day ago
My 2 year old has my phone at night before bed. I am a full time working since mummy so I need a bit of time out too. She loves Blippi, Buster the bus, nursery rhymes and Peppa pig. She's never unsupervised with it and she knows not to throw it down. She has no problems socialising and playing with other kids and no withdrawals. I did have a little trouble getting it off her at bed time but she knows now when it's bed time I put on soothing music (meditation music). It's great to have something that occupies her while I do other things too like take a shower or clean up after dinner.1 day ago
My daughter was 17 months when my 2nd was born and I had all these ideas of what I’d do and how she would be entertained and bought her her own baby doll etc but when the time came we ended up just sitting on the couch together watching abc kids or shows she was interested in on iview and if she wanted to go off and play with her toys she would1 day ago · 2
I'm due in July this year and my plan is too get my daughter who's obsessed with babies a doll that she can interact with. So when im changing baby's bum she can change her babies, when im feeding baby she can feed hers. I'm also planning to involve her where I can, have specific times where its all about her and days where its just mummy and her. Because the jealousy comes from baby being so close all the time due to feeding etc.1 day ago
I personally would not be using an iPad at that age it’s not great for their eyes and at that age only 10min of screen time is recommended. I understand you need a distraction so maybe try touch and feel and sound books instead or a variety of learning toys etc. If they all fail then iPad it is.1 day ago
NBB question from Maria:
My one year old has recently started to get pimples on his face. Sometimes they look quite red and sore. Sometimes they appear to be like whiteheads.
Are they best left alone completely or can anyone suggest a cream or something else that might help? Thanks!
NBB question from Sana:
Hi, my son is 6 months old.
We have noticed some rashes under his chin, could it be from teething?
Could be but just get it checked out either way. Looks like a bit of dermatitis from saliva from teething or a range of other reasons I’d say in this case the teething / saliva on his skin !Doctors can prescribe a proper cream otherwise try to keep area dry which is hard I’d he’s teething and apply some bum cream when u can as this helps but I’d be seeing a doctor for some proper prescribed cream Always have things checked out of not sure !1 day ago · 1
be careful our daughter had same when she was the same age of your bub, we were unaware, later on it turned to eczema due to dryness. check your gp and keep the area clean and moisture with qv cream. check on the crease of neck and clean it and moisture as much as possible to avoid those rashes otherwise it will flare up over every where. my daughter's got infected but we were unaware, later on we had to stay in hospital for further treatment. takecare and goodluck.1 day ago · 1
We are so very lucky to have this forum to ask questions and advice with other mums, but when it comes to any change in skin or rashes, its best to see your GP to ensure its something easy and simple. Chances are its milk or teething rash, but incase it is a dietary reaction or ph issue best to book an Drs appointment xx. Good luck 💕1 day ago · 1
NBB question from Maddy:
Hi guy just wanting to ask a question for everyone.
Looking for recommendation on the best breastfeeding pillow for bigger size boobs. Currently a G cup and pregnant. Xx
I was an F before pregnancy and a FF-G when my milk came in. I would have to do football hold to feed on my right boob, but am lucky enough to have recliner chair to rest bubs feet and body on the cushiony arm of the chair. Then a normal pillow under their heads. I did use a boomerang pillow for night time bed feeds tho â¤ï¸1 day ago
NBB question from Kylie:
Ladies I need some advice. This is my first bubba and I'm currently 33+3 weeks and I am in so much pain. I have been struggling with symphysis pubis dysfunction since about 28 weeks but now its sciatica as well. Everyday is a struggle to move, even to roll in bed i am moaning in agony. I have been booked in for some physiotherapy on Tuesday but its taking such a mental toll I find myself not wanting to get out of bed on the daily. On top of that I am struggling so much with keeping food down of a night time. I suffer GERD but have done all the right things to save myself from brining my.dinner back up. I can eat dinner and wait 3-5 hours, take quick eze, mylanta, rennie, before I go to bed and can still be up being sick. Last night was the worst I've ever encountered and my poor husband had to deal with the after math as I was so weak and un well. This is also making me not want to eat and quite frankly I just want the baby out. This has been a dream come true and I've wanted this for so so many years but its becoming almost too hard for me to handle. My mental health is down tge drain and I already suffer from anxiety and depression and on medication for it. Please give me some advice, ideas, reassuarance, anything to get me through ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ x
Aww I feel for you, I just went thru the same thing, exactly& had gestational diabetes with extra fluid! I cried at all my appointments to have her early, I couldnt walk.. physio, she taped up my back and massaged me and gave me exercise to do & got a belly band,that helped alot, I slept propt up aswell for the gerd. Milk helped me with that also but went on medication for it. It will be over before you know it and you'll have your precious bubba in your hands and will have forgotten all the troubles your having now. One day at a time, good luck xox20 hours ago
Sorry if someone has already suggested this I haven’t read through all the comments but I suffered heartburn and didn’t want to eat so badly with my pregnancy. I ended up getting my doctor to prescribe omeprazole and it worked wonders and is safe for the baby. I finally got some rest and could eat without regretting it. I had sciatica too and honestly or much helped me other than heat packs and stretching.1 day ago · 2
There are lots of wonderful suggestions above. I would try swimming as a way of stretching while having weight taken off your pelvis and hips. I would also talk to your midwife as soon as you can about how the combination of symptoms and pain is causing so much distress. Don’t let health professionals minimise your pain, find someone whether midwife, OB, physio, chiro or GP l, who can help you work through it. I would also recommend that should you have a vaginal delivery to not give birth on your back as this doesn’t open the pelvis to its optimum potential and you risk causing damage that would make postpartum recovery longer. That is of course unless giving birth on your back is medically necessary. A water birth if possible could also help with your labour.1 day ago · 1
One of the best things you can do it try and take the weight off. I was having daily swims to try and ease my discomfort, and it really helped, just an hour a day was such a difference. 100% try and see a chiro, and if you have a chair you can sleep upright in I would be moving to it. There are also some fantastic YouTube pregnancy physio exercises you can do Im to help stretch and ease your muscles. I also used a gym ball to help stretch a d sit on to ease my hip pain. You are so close to the end of this, hopefully you get some good practical advice to help.1 day ago
I think we go intro pregnancy expecting this beautiful experience, but for many of us it is SO hard. I hated almost every minute of it, I really struggled physically and mentally. Have a chat to your health professional, they can prescribe medication to help with both of those conditions, having a bit of relief will do you a world of good. If you can, see an osteopath, they can help with the general aches and pains. Treat yourself to a pregnancy massage, have a bath, anything to temporarily get some relief and do something nice for yourself. And think about seeing a psychologist if you don’t already. Take it one day at a time. Don’t let yourself think about how long you have to go, it’s too overwhelming. I promise it will be over in a flash and you’ll have that beautiful babe in your arms1 day ago · 4
I’m 30 weeks and feeling awful back & hip pain too, they physio has been amazing and gave me great relief, she gave be stretches to do to loosen out my lower back when it tightens up. I found a pregnancy support belt quite helpful. (When I remember to wear it!) In regards to the heartburn & indigestion, I am the very same, every single thing I eat/drink absolutely kills me with acid reflux, evening meals coming back up too. My obstetrician put me on Pariet (rabeprazole) and it has really helped, I was taking it in the morning but my evening meals are the ones that affect me the most, especially when I lie down so I’ve now stated taking it about 1 hour before my evening meal and it has helped big time. I’m still chewing on Mylanta quite often but the Pariet has definitely helped. Hope you get some relief soon. 💚21 hours ago
I’ve suffered with pelvic pain since 15 weeks. A good quality belly band that sits really low (under the belly and around the pelvis) makes a world of difference. A physio was able to recommend some exercises that helped quite a bit and my OB prescribed stronger analgesia. Now 28 weeks and feeling better and I’m able to get around much easier 😊1 day ago
I went through with this my last two pregnancies. Acupuncture helped me so much please look into it. I would also sit in the bath for hours. I had never experienced sciatica before my pregnancy and now it comes and goes, it's very important after your pregnancy you keep up with stretching like pigeon pose I find if I'm not stretching daily it flares up. Keep your knees together when you're standing up or getting out of bed.1 day ago
100% my pregnancies doctor for stronger tabs for gerd one a day plus the mylanta ect helps keep food down belly bands can be helpful but can also be expensive I don’t know where you are but midwives here give you like a stretchy tube material it’s just a light compression but It’s amazing helped me get through waitressing up until 36 weeks Tried osteo and Chiro for my hips found that physio and exercises worked better also keeping more active seem to keep pain levels down After I got them under control Also pillow wedges and remember this isnt forever I wish you all of the luck â¤ï¸1 day ago
I also had SPD and it was unbearable some days. The best thing I ever did was go to a women’s physio. She massaged my belly and sore points and then used athletes tape to tape my belly and gave my a belly band to wear. I did this once a week and it was the best thing I ever did. It relieves so much of the pressure and helps support your belly more. Highly recommend. 1 day ago
No advice, but I had the same thing and every midwife and GP dismissed mine my entire pregnancy and it sucked so badly. Only in the last few weeks did someone pick up on it, by then it was too late to do anything. Just try to rest as much as possible but if you can get help, do it! I was recommended acupuncture but it was too late for me to try it in the end. Hope you find some relief! 💜 1 day ago
Sciatica is the worst, I have a plug in heat mat I lay on that helps and make sure when you walk you take little half steps. Take magnesium every night and don't drink water with meals. If you're thirsty after a meal have a little milk. Create a pillow palace in bed and try and sleep propped up or ask hubby to prob the bed up slightly on bricks. Sometimes treatment can trigger and aggravate sciatica more so please rest. You can fix it once bub is out, I know it's rough but you don't have long, hang in there! Xx1 day ago
You sound exactly like me!! I had GORD until one episode that sent me over the edge!! I booked in to see my doctor and got on a PPI for the reflux and haven’t had an issue since. I saw a physio for the SPD but by the time I got in to see her, the SPD was gone and I was suffering from really bad sciatica (or so I thought) she thought it was more the glut muscles instead of specifically being sciatica. She gave me some exercises to do which stretches those muscles and it is resolving. 1 day ago
Pregnancy massage helped me with the same thing pain wise! Belly band was a life saver too, as was a gym ball to bounce on through the day. I was unable to roll over in bed without excruciating pain, once I layed down that was it I was not getting back up unless I HAD to! Not sure it will help but might do! Oh a heat pack for the SPD too!!1 day ago
I had this, but I got it at the very end of my pregnancy around 38 weeks. Because it was so late in my pregnancy I couldn't do anything for mine except to try and bring on labour or having a bath. My midwife suggested physio or a brace but neither were helpful for me as by the time I could get into one or get a brace, I would have had my baby. I also had extremely bad reflux towards the end too. I normally have reflux but it was so bad during my pregnancy that I was literally burping acid. I tilted my pillow of a night and slept on my left side as it provided me a small amount of relief but nothing helped not even drinking milk. But it all went away as soon as I had my baby and the pain too. Good luck, you are so close and it's all worth it in the end 💕1 day ago
I'm 34 weeks and have struggled with hip pain since the beginning of the second trimester. It has gotten worse as time went on. I can't sleep in a bed more then 2 hours and I sleep in the recliner in the lounge room the rest of the time. I have a support band that goes around my hips that I find really helpful when I'm on my feet for long periods. I have had bad heartburn and reflux for the last week and I've found that it makes dealing with the rest of the pain harder. Most of the stuff you buy to treat it makes me throw up so I haven't been using anything but you might be able to see the doctor as I'm pretty sure there is a tablet they can give you if it is that bad.1 day ago
Yep I had/have spd + sciatic pain with one and two, one was from 13 weeks and two from 18 weeks. I found the pain to be worse on my mental health. I did pregnancy yoga, remedial massage and physio and wore a belt with the first. And worked u til 37weeks full time on a farm. Which probably didn’t help! Labour was really bad and traumatic pain was excruciating! so I suggest an epidural, I’m having early epi this time suggested by my Drs and midwives as I had to have spinal block last time. This pregnancy I am only working 2 days but making sure I rest and don’t allow the muscles to over tighten which makes the pain worse. But also have a 15m old running around. Keeping knees together while rolling in bed, getting in and out of cars, pelvic floor exercises and engagement when getting up etc, a belt has made it worse this time so o don’t wear that, but do some hip opening stretches. I also take magnesium to help. As for the gerds, if u were on medication for it u should still be able to take it or one of them. Dr allowed me to take mine, I only took it when needed and very late in pregnancy made me too sick and stressed in the end not to take it.1 day ago
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NBB Question from April:
Wondering how others have dealt with teething ? My poor Bub has been teething and really unwell since late Friday night. She is inconsolable most of the day and only getting about 4 hours sleep all night. Refusing to eat and drink to the point she didn’t even have 500ml yesterday. Sounds congested at night. I’ve taken her to the drs, but because she presents perfectly to them were sent off without any guidance. Any tips to get through this stage?
NBB Question from anon:
Any tips on looking after a baby that is breastfed, more specifically on comfort and calming/sleeping. The baby is used to the breast being offered for comfort and often falls asleep. Thank you.
If bub has had a good feed then there's no reason not to introduce a comfort item. I found weaning really difficult for this reason (took over a year to drop the before nap and bed feeds even when working full time). And at 2yrs 3 months, dad still can't reliably get him down for a nap or bed. So while breastfeeding worked great for ages, next time I'll work on a comfort item and other routines.2 days ago · 1
Just follow bubs cues. If bub wants to be on the boob then do it. Breastfeeding is NOT just for feeding it is for comfort, for pain relief, for constipation relief, for relaxation to be close to you and for many other reasons. You can not spoil a baby and the only real comfort they get at a young age is the boob so please don't try and deny that.2 days ago · 37
My son did this when he went throw the 6 week sleep regression stage and it was exhausting to say the least. He would latch and then fall asleep with a minute. This was the first time introduced a dummy and used it just for sleep instead of my breast. However I only used the avent bear soothee ones as they are the best for confusion and mouth developed. 2 days ago
Some times my little guy trys to do this but if he has been fed already (so I know he is full) I will give him to my husband and give him a dummy, then he brings him in close (same hold as if he was being breastfeed) and he walks around or sits in a rocking chair until he relaxes or falls asleep. This way my husband or others can help soothing him if I'm not there. Best of luck and I'm sure the mum will appreciate it 😊2 days ago · 1
I agree 😥 I’m sure there will be more challenging times as well. But holy wow that first couple of months was particularly hard on a marriage! I always tell my closest friends that this time will really test you as a person & as a couple. Be kind to each other, learn to let things go & forgive as much as possible 💗2 days ago · 2
Yes it extends beyond the first year. We have got to stop that whole ‘fantasy’ mentality, and when I say this, I mean that people need to stop thinking that having a baby solves things or it’s like a bandaid to ‘rekindle’ the marriage/relationship when really it makes things worse. I always say it to my girlfriends expecting, “Whatever issues and problems you have now, big or small - put it all out in the table between yourselves. Because when baby comes, everything will amplify times 10. And that’s a fact. You’ll thank me laterâ€. Some see the ‘romance’ of having a baby but not the ‘reality’ of it, until they’re in it and it’ll sink in. Very quickly and very deep. My daughter really surprised us as weren’t expecting or trying. She came at a time where we had probably needed her the most ✨2 days ago · 2
My husband and I have become so much closer since having our newborn. Yes it's still early days and yes there has been some challenges we have crossed and overcome but for us communication is key. He does 2 night feeds so I get a solid 6hrs sleep and then takes bub after I feed him at 6am so I can sleep a few more hours until the next feed. We are more worried when bub is mobile and starts to talk 😂😂2 days ago
NBB Question from anon:
Looking to hear from any ladies that have had/have gestational diabetes.
Any tips to get fasting levels under 5? (Diet controlled)
What time is a good time for a bedtime snack? And what's your go to?
What time do you test bgl in the morning? How long do you go fasting? Have you plotted bgls through the night to see what time they dip and rise?
Thankyou.
Half an hour exercise after I ate in the evenings did wonders for my bgl! A walk, some lunges, whatever I could manage at the time. I think it actually helped me keep fit in pregnancy. I did a fasting test in the morning when I woke up then had breakfast. I had my bedtime snack after I tested in the evening (2hours after dinner) so usually around 9. I tried to eat carbs with a low GI index which also helped e.g sweet potato instead of potato, brown rice instead of white rice. Ps that huge bowl of gnocchi after birth without worrying about bgl was the best! Its hard having GDM but will pass! 2 days ago
Mine needed to be 4.9 or below. I definitely found if I didn't have enough water throughout the day and didn't have a sweet treat (15g of carbs) before bed, my number spiked. I would have a mini almond magnum, or a warm Milo before bed and it kept my numbers spot on and I managed to stay diet controlled throughout pregnancy. Just be mindful as it really is trial and error, finding which foods work for you, everyone is different2 days ago
My biggest suggestion is to look at the type of food you are eating. Things that are high in fat will make your blood sugars spike through the night. Lean meats are best. It does get harder the further through your pregnancy that you go. Your best option if you are able is to see a dietitian who is familiar with GDM. All the best2 days ago
I had GS i followed the strict diet now I weigh less than what I did before falling pregnant. I have to follow this diet or I will get diabeties. I ate alot of protein and veg with low gi pasta or basmati rice. When I craved sugar I would buy a healthy sugar free treat or ate alot of yogurt. Coke zero was my best friend. I also ate alot of multigrain sandwiches2 days ago
Fasting levels are the hardest to get until control. In general diet won't help with it. Some people have success with having a high protein bedtime snack/drink but it made no difference for me. Don't be afraid of insulin if you need it. I had it each night for fasting levels only (managed the rest through diet). It doesn't really hurt, and is very manageable. Also GD doesn't automatically mean that you have to be induced or attached to a monitor the whole time (if you don't want to). I had a spontaneous vaginal birth, with no issues. Different hospitals have different rules though.2 days ago · 2
Unfortunately sometimes you can do everything right and those fasting levels still won’t come down 😔 I was really strict with what I ate and when and still ended up on metformin to bring my fasting levels down. In regards to what foods I ate, I focused on eating a whole food diet (nothing processed), which was mainly meat and veg with occasional dairy and some 85% dark chocolate if I needed a little treat. But really it was all trial and error and what your body can handle. My friend was able to eat rice without any issues but when I ate it my levels skyrocketed. Just try and eat as clean as possible, write down all the food you eat in a day so get an understanding of what it does to you levels. 2 days ago
Fasting levels are what have stuffed me up. I see an endocrinologist who says they have to be under 5.5 (I think diabetic nurses have lower ranges). I have to take insulin at night because even though my after food are always great my overnights won’t stabilise and nothing food related will fix this (although I do have a glass of milk before bed as directed by my endocrinologist). I had it with my eldest and had far from a big baby like they threaten you will have with GD (he was 2.84kg at 37+5). Anywhere between 8-9 I take my Before breakfast levels but I’m not “specific†on the time as long as it’s more than 8hrs after last eating 2 days ago
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NBB Question from Beccarah:
Hi, I’m wondering what others experiences are with VBACs. Eg induction (as they won’t let me go over 39 weeks due to GDM), first sign of labour, successful or not successful VBAC stories, and anything wise you think I should know
I am currently 35+2 with my second. My first was a ‘booked emergency’ c section in March 2019 due to growth restriction and pre-eclampsia (I had enough time for 2 doses of steroids and had him first thing the next morning). I am really trying to avoid a c section this time, mostly due to the recovery with a toddler and the fact that I don’t have as much family support this time around. I understand all the risks of a VBAC.
Thankyou!
So I had 1st - emergency C-section due to pre-eclampsia 2nd - VBAC needing emergency vacuum from baby drop in heart rate and bub needed resuscitation. 3rd - planned C- section Meconium baby. 4th - VBAC... fast delivery resulting in Bub having bruising and cracked rib 5th - planned c -section Wasn’t induced for either VBACS3 days ago
Hey, just incase you do have to have a csection... I had abdo surgery when my girl was 18mo, we managed it well :) she understood mummy had a sore tummy and we made new ways to do things. I hope you are able to have your LO the way you want, but if it doesn't work out that way it will be ok :)3 days ago
I had a great VBAC experience. My first was a planned c section due to IUGR and breech (they monitored from 35 weeks and I had her at 36+5). My second I really wanted VBAC and since there were no complications they were happy for me to try. She came naturally at 38+2 (water broke at midnight & she was born 6:47pm). All went really well. My girls are just over 21 months apart. Good luck :)3 days ago
I had a c section emergency 34 weeks with my first and with my second at 37 weeks. My daughter was 3 when I had my son so she was good and helpful. I seemed to recover faster as I knew I had her to look after as well. I’m pregnant with my third due end of may and another c section will be booked in my son will be 22 months and my daughter 5 I’m hoping fit good surgery so I recover fast. If you do need c section you will be fine just try have easy activities for toddler so you can take it easy at the same time, good luck I’m sure you will be fine 3 days ago
I had an emergency c section with my first one in 2017 as I stopped progressing after 8cm.With my second I attempted VBAC in 2020 and had a very short labour and delivery. Recovery was much easier this time. Although I was double minded throughout my pregnancy because of the risk associated with it but in the end it was all worth it!!!3 days ago
You definitely need to speak to your doctor and midwife about your choices and weigh up the benefits vs. risks. Just because you had pre-eclampsia with your first, doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll get it this time around, but your risk is higher than that of someone who didn’t have it first time around. Just ask for as much information and recommendations from trained professionals as you can, then make an informed decision (or plan), as babies tend to make up their own mind about how things will play out anyway 😂 best of luck!3 days ago
I had an emergency caesarian in 2018. Went for a VBAC in 2019. I was induced, well managed and monitored constantly. I didn’t achieve my VBAC but I tried and it was a great experience. You have nothing to loose, if you want to try then go for it 😊 I am having a planned caesarian in July/August for my 3rd. 3 days ago
i fully ruptured and tore my whole uterus and me and my baby nearly died. she had to be ressusitated and intubated and in NICU for 11 days me and her. i got to 8 cms naturally and all turned south. i have a whole story to share but it's very long. sorry i hope it doesn't scare you as mine was a 1 in like a 500 case but ruptures can happen3 days ago
I've had four csections and tried for a vbac. Unsuccessful due to not dialating past 6cms. My first born was 17months when I had my second c-section and actually recovered quiet well. My third was a planned and it was 4 yrs later and that was just a breeze and less stressful delivery. My fourth well...my waters broke and she was meant to be a planned too and she was born 37weeks. I was in Labour for 9hrs as the theatre weren't expecting me. That was the hardest for me because I was in Labour for a while and exhausted and she also had some complications with breathing. Obviously do what you want, you can always try its safe to do so. Goodluck mum3 days ago
Definitely join the group Leah mentioned above. Please remember it's your body. They cannot tell you what to do, when to birth and how to birth. They can advise bur ultimately the decision is yours. I have had 3 successful VBACs and if you join the VBAC Australia Support Group you will find an abundance of information and a lot of women who have had identical birth stories to yourself. 3 days ago · 4
I have little to no help myself and I was fine after my second c section with a 14 months old, I’m about to have my third one and have a 3 year old and 2 year old. Don’t join the vbac support group, I did and it gave me so much more anxiety so I left, you will be fine you did it the first time you can do it the second time.3 days ago · 1
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